Money problems are frequently a reported as a source of stress and conflict in a marriage.
- This is an issue that is once removed from the surface issues
- Examples are always and never, as in you “never” said or did it, and “cabin” no it’s a “ranch”.
- The ways to deal with these issues are to redefine the words and in that way neutralize them or just throw out the issue.
- Surface Issue
- There are two kinds.
- Reality must be considered. Examples would be losing a job, death of a child, and a serious accident of disease.