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Communication

All couples have problems with communication. • Communication is done through prosody, gestures, touch, facial expressions and intuition. • There are four taboos of communication: 1. No criticizing 2. No defending 3. No defending 4. No uncontrolled or vented anger • There are seven methods of communication: 1. Play Talk 2. Information Exchange 3. Casual Conversation 4. Intellectual Discussion 5. Problem Solving 6. Talking and Listening (The Dialogue of Intimacy) • Utilization of any of the above forms of communication contributes to quality time.

Talking and listening

Talking and Listening

  • This is The Dialogue of Intimacy.
  • This method is not interactional. Each person stays in place for the entire time.
  • Talking means talking about feelings and listening means listening to feelings.
  • If this is not working there is criticizing and defending.
  • This is connecting.  All else is contact.

Three Kinds of Talking and Listening